May 10, 2015



Little flowers in profusion. Are they in the daisy family?


Happy American Mother’s Day to all the mothers in our lives.  Thank you!  Hope your day was memorable.

This week was another one to stay-at-home with desk work – mostly.   The last projects that were approved are on hold for the couple coming after us.  So, we are finishing up the ones we have been working on, closing out the paper work and accounting details; hence, not many photo ops.

Of course, when we are here we attend teaching programs with the elders and this week we went to several with each set of elders.  


Saturday we left after lunch to Budapest to attend stake conference.  Stan attendied the Saturday afternoon priesthood leadership meeting and said they mentioned that 2/3 of the priesthood brethren in Hungary are less active!   That really validates the thought that this country, like in the early days of the Church, is going through its own growing and refining process.   The strong saints will become stronger and that kind of a foundation is greatly needed for the future growth.

One focus of the evening session was on social media – flooding the world with worthwhile and uplifting messages.   The Europe Area goal is to double the activity level, and there was a very enlightening discussion and demonstration of all the possible Church events to which we could invite others.   Yes, we know all these events, but the enlightening part was when it was actually shown on a calendar – baptisms, blessings, ordinations, talks, RS activities, YW and YM activities, YSA, FHE, (non) farewell and homecoming talks, camps, father-son events, etc.   The calendar was quite full of possibilities.   Therefore, in the ordinances thereof, the power of godliness is manifest. D&C 84:20)



Sunday morning we were visiting with elders and I looked over and did a double take, thinking a woman looked familiar.  She was!  It was Cami Buhman.  She and her husband, Jeff, lived in the Pleasant View 6th Ward in her parents’ (Kirk and Carol Waldron) home while they were serving a mission.  The Buhmans and friends were on a trip to Prague, Budapest and Vienna.  It truly is a small world!  How fun to see someone from home and reconnect.

We were reminded Sunday about the importance of family history.  Any work done in the temple is time well spent, but receiving ordinances vicariously for one of your own ancestors will make the time in the temple more sacred, and even greater blessings will be received.  (Elder Richard G. Scott)  We are committed to go home and get involved in family history!

President Smith (mission president) spoke and shared a couple of missionary miracles:  1) two elders had been knocking on doors unsuccessfully for an hour.  They stopped, evaluated what they were doing, prayed, and as they said “Amen,” someone tapped one on the shoulder and asked if they were Mormon missionaries.  “Can you teach me,” he asked.  “I met with the missionaries in another country and since coming here, I haven’t found them.”   2)  A man was very down and discouraged.  He decided to pray and ask God to help him.  He finished and picked up the Bible and it opened to Revelations 3:20, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock. . .”  Just then there was a knock at the door.  He opened it and saw two young men.  Without saying anything he invited them in.  Surprised at the reception they asked him who he thought they were.  He said, “I was praying to God asking for help and I think you have been sent by Him to help me.”   They were blessed to teach and baptize this man.

President Southwick used the analogy of Simba in Lion King.  Simba, who was the son of the king, was led away by his evil and jealous uncle and taught ‘Akuna Matata’ – no worries.   Just enjoy life; eat, drink and be merry (see 2 Nephi 28:7-8).   Simba finally came to himself, learned that it was his uncle who had killed his father, had a mighty change of heart and then he fought for all that he had before and for his right to be the king.   We are all children of a King! Now we want to watch Lion King again.

Did you know that smiling releases more endorphins to your brain than 2,000 chocolate bars?  We also learned that at stake conference!  This is a happy stake; we have many blessings.  Show it by smiling.

We returned home Sunday afternoon arriving only minutes before the elders came to have their time to Skype their families for Mother’s Day.   Of course, they all had enjoyable visits and we got to say a quick hello to their families.   We then had dinner – as close to Café Rio as possible here. 

Then President Balint came over to discuss the details of the upcoming YSA activity next weekend.  And we learned that the branch, being filled with mortal human beings, has had a bit of drama the last couple of weeks.   We just hope and pray that this young, 26-year-old president does not get overwhelmed with these issues as he tries to counsel, direct and continue in his own full-time work and study as a student. 

Oh, how imperfect we as human beings are.  Hopefully, as we err and stray from the path we grab hold of the iron rod and pull right back on because wickedness never was happiness and  happiness comes only when we are on the strait and narrow way being obedient and daily adding to our testimonies line upon line, precept upon precept.

May 3, 2015



We ordered a vegetable plate one day and expected the Hungarian staple -- broccoli, cauliflower and carrots.  This came and was delicious; those are grilled cucumbers!
Boldog Magyar Anyák Napja (Happy Hungarian Mother’s Day). 

This week turned a bit cold and rainy.  In fact one day was a real downpour, accompanied by wind -- much wind.  Could it be that Mother Nature uses wind as her pruning method?  The streets and sidewalks were littered with small, dead twigs and branches the next morning. 


Two times we went with missionaries to falvak (villages) away from Kaposvár to visit members.   Tractors were out on the country roads.



The drive was beautiful – yellow rape seed (canola oil) fields are in bloom.   We commented to one member how beautiful they are and also that they smelled so nice.   We were told they smell good now, but when they are ripe and are being harvested, the smell is terrible.   Oh well, we won’t go near them.  Elder Martineau was so taken with the sight, he just wanted to be in the middle of the field.  


One member gave us wonderful smelling lilacs (orgonát).  


Near Kaposvár is the sign to this village – Juta, pronounced Utah.  Those who know about Utah tell us that we don’t have to go very far to get to Utah.  



The next section of the street near our home and in front of the hospital is under construction for new sidewalk and parking spaces -- hand-laid paving tiles.

We have been searching for metal frame beds for a couple of projects.  We found some at IKea and since they were welded, Elder Miller thought they would be sturdy enough.  We priced them and got them approved, and last week went to buy them – Ikea has discontinued them!   Back to square 1.   We finally found a couple of places, but were not sure about either one and decided we should look at them before we ordered to see if they would be sturdy enough for children's homes.   We had three other places we needed to pay for orders, so on Thursday we headed to Budapest just for the day hoping to get it all accomplished.

Our first stop was at Alex Butor, a places that manufacturers furniture for kindergartens, schools, and dorms.  We have used them several times and know the high quality of their furniture.  They are wonderful to work with (we just have to go there and pay in cash).   We knew the girl we usually speak English with was not going to be there, but we had ordered online and just needed to pay, so thought it would not be a problem to accomplish that task – in Hungarian.  We were asked several questions, which we couldn’t understand, so the girl went and got her boss (who spoke English very well).   We took care of our order and made the payment.   As we were walking in I noticed a sign on the stairs – Fém Butor (Metal Furniture).   So at that point I mentioned to him the sign and asked if they made metal frame beds.  He took us in his office and asked what we needed.  (We had previously looked in their catalog and only saw wood beds, much more expensive that we had budgeted.)  We explained our need, told him the reasons we needed metal, and showed him our budget for beds and mattresses.  He wrote down several figures and said, “Let me put together a proposal for you.”   (Since Friday was a holiday, we are hoping that proposal comes tomorrow.) 

We know Alex Butor; we trust Alex Butor!   We truly felt the Lord’s hand in this interaction.  If the girl who speaks English had been there, no one would have gone in to get the boss.  And we had a very nice visit with him explaining our purpose; and for him to offer the beds at the price we budgeted is truly a blessing. 

The next place we went had closed early for the holiday; but someone was there and opened for us.  The girl who knew about our order came running in for a quick minute (before going to a program at her child’s school) and took care of us.   Another tender mercy!

May 1st was the Hungarian Labor Day.   The only thing noticeable was that banks and stores were closed and our town seemed deserted – except for the ice cream stores.   We had lunch with the elders after district meeting; they had popsicles, and then they enjoyed ice cream by the fountain.  

We were missing a good number of branch members today; perhaps because of the holiday.  However, we had several visitors:  7 non-members, a former missionary and his wife, the stake president who was here to call Brother and Sister Fekete from Pécs (larger town and branch 65 k southeast) to be members of the Kaposvár Branch and also called him to serve as the elder's quorum president.  We enjoyed the company of both President Southwick and Brother and Sister Fekete for lunch afterwards.  Sweet couple; he served as the first branch president here several years ago.  They have a daughter attending BYU-Hawaii.

We feel the Lord's hand daily.  This is His work.  We are grateful to be called of Him and to serve in His name.  Remember in the Garden of Gethsemane when Christ came to His very tired disciples and asked them, "What, could ye not watch with me one hour?"  Perhaps he was asking, "What, could you not serve with me one hour?"  We pray that we will always be ready, willing and awake to serve the 'hour' with our Savior.
















  



April 26, 2015



A sign on a machine at the bank! 


“On the road again.”  It’s not a music tour like Willie Nelson’s, but it still seems to be a familiar ‘tune’ for us anyway.

Tuesday we headed northwest to Sopron to visit a home for the mentally and physically disabled that our stake president referred to us.  This county facility and its staff care for 170 residents, ages 3 – 58; then on that afternoon to ‘close’ a project at a Christian school in Győr.   A member is a teacher at this school and her children attend there.  Earlier this school year they separated themselves from their previous partners because of the things that were expected to be taught.  They are housed in old, massive buildings but are slowly renovating.  The children have no outside areas in which to play, and the school is accessed by driving through an industrial area.   Their object is to learn and study.   In America, we have so many extras and luxuries that we sometimes take them for granted.  


They were helped with some tables, storage cabinets and chairs and large rug for the kindergarten, educational books and supplies and musical instruments and headphones for the older classes.   When we first visited, the principal said she had heard negative things about the Mormons, but this time she told us she had changed her mind, and they love and respect the member teacher that is helping them.  Staff are all currently working at 70% of salary until they build up the school to full capacity.


The drives continue to be beautiful as the country is turning green!  Flowers are being planted,


leaves are coming out, 
Parking along the street in front of the hospital has just been completed -- very nice.

summer city and street renovating projects are in the works.  Life is busy in Hungary. 

On the way in to Budapest later that afternoon we stopped at IKEA to buy some metal beds.  After previously pricing them and getting the project approved, we learned that they have discontinued the metal beds!   Now, we are searching again.

Actually, while still at IKEA we received a call from our area supervisors in Germany.  Because the Eastern European countries were not receiving humanitarian missionary replacements, they had told us a month or so ago to not worry about the budget, but to do as many projects as possible.  Well, this call was to halt that instruction.  They are now receiving replacements!  Good news.   And, we forgot to mention last week that the Hungary Budapest Mission is also getting a humanitarian couple, Elder and Sister Lund from Sandy, UT!   So, the area may not approve any more projects for us; we need to leave some budget for the new couple.   We will continue wrapping up the actual projects and paper work for the ones we are currently working on, and, if possible, get some ‘in the works’ for Elder and Sister Lund. 

 Wednesday we crisscrossed Budapest to several places to order and make payments on project orders and then to several furniture stores asking about metal beds. 

We have also been asked to look at a project possibility that would have a high impact on a
large number of people.  We have daily noticed and then it was confirmed with research, 
“Tobacco is the leading single cause of death in Hungary” and “Smoking is the most 
important public health issue in Hungary causing in excess of 28,000 deaths per year.”  So,
have been researching and preparing some information for a possible anti-smoking 
campaign that the Church might partner with the government. Big dreams, absolutely!  Our 
mission president suggested we meet with the former stake president.  We did , and he directed us to meet with the head surgeon of the National Center for Spinal Disorders, who
is a member (albeit less-active), and who has contacts in the Ministry of Health.   So 
Wednesday afternoon we were able to meet with this doctor.  He was very amiable and 
helpful.   He knew and was involved with a government program several years ago in which 
they emphasized:  1) anti-smoking, 2) healthy  eating, and 3) physical education in the 
schools.   He is sending us that program and we will study it and see if we might propose to 
collaborate in some way and continue at least the anti-smoking part.  This is just in 
beginning stages, and hopefully we can do enough to get this off the ground, and it
can be accepted and continued.  

First thing Thursday morning I actually had a physical -- at a clinic in Budapest that serves 
Americans.  I went because Stan had previously had a required physical for his driver’s 
license and was very impressed.  (And since we’re paying for the insurance, decided we 
might as well use it once.)  Contrary to previous mention about the quality of  medical 
facilities here, this place is wonderful and very thorough.  The only result I have so far is a 
'calm heart.'  (The EKG was very routine.)
 
At Sports Village, we saw these very small skate boards.  Are they for toddlers?
 
Then there were three more places we needed to go to make payments.  Thanks to our trusty GPS, again we were at opposite ends of town to accomplish this.  One suburb town actually seemed newer and better kept than most. As mentioned before, there seems to be no zoning regulations; this business was in a home – which also was very nice.   The owner’s son (who spoke English) said the town is not newer but they have renovated much of the city.   Wish there was Church presence in that city.

We’ve mentioned before about needing to pay cash for most things.  Another peculiar characteristic of shopping in Hungary is that you will always get at least two receipts, sometimes three.  Even the bigger stores print one for themselves and file in a little makeshift cardboard box on the counter.  If they give us a szamla (invoice), then there are several copies, all of which get two rubber stamps.  Sometimes, they even need to write something by hand on a ledger -- all very labor intensive.  

We arrived home at 4 p.m. Thursday and had company for dinner at 7 p.m.   We made it!   The German couple that we home and visit teach alternate with us each month for dinner.   Thank goodness for their son who translates for us.   She speaks some English, but he speaks very little.   They are about our same age; we have a good time and have become good friends.  

Our branch was scheduled to have a baptism this weekend.  However, there does not seem to be a place in Kaposvár to have one.   They previously rented a pool at a school; it is no longer available.  The branch president has called hotels, schools and other places he has thought of and so far, no one has or will rent a pool.   This is a problem!


While we were away this week there was a murder in Kaposvár just a couple of blocks from us.  Don’t worry, we have never felt unsafe.  Apparently a 21-year-old woman worked at the National Tobacco Store and when she closes at night she is to call her boss.  When he didn’t hear from her, he called and got no answer.  He came to the store and found her.  I guess there was a robber who got away with around $75.  I only mention this because the person that was to be baptized is the policewoman who was called to investigate the case.  She has been very involved this week and probably wouldn’t have been baptized even if water had been found.   So we heard all this from the elders and then we just happened to walk by the place and noticed the candles, so snapped a photo.  So sad. 

We did have a good sacrament meeting today.  Attendance was good; 7 investigators.  A brother who has recently got active again spoke.  He was called about three weeks ago to play the piano and chooses the music.  He loves it, does a great job and mentioned today that he is grateful for this calling.  His message of the importance of conference (stake conference is coming up) was a good one, and his testimony was strong.   Little by little these saints are becoming stronger, the roots are strengthening and we continue to pray that those the missionaries are teaching will desire to know the truth and make the commitment to be baptized.  We are grateful when they continue to attend church. 

This is the Lord’s Church.  We are grateful for the opportunity to serve and represent Him in His work. 









 
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