August 10, 2014



Stake Deacon Beehive Service activity and the finished blankets.
We had quite a bit of rain this week again.  We are always grateful for it because it cools the days down.  But we learned this week that all the rain this year has been a problem for the farmers.  The spring was very rainy; so they waited to plant and then it was late.  We didn’t get the whole story, but there’s something about the cost of drying seeds.  This week is predicted to be a hot one!  It’s almost the middle of August; I guess we should expect as much.





Monday we drove to the small town of Felcsut, about 40 minutes west of Budapest, to a stake Deacon Beehive activity where we had been asked to provide a service project for them.   We had 20 fleece blankets for the youth to help cut and tie that evening.   They did a great job.  The boys chose to cut and the girls tied.  We have 4 to finish up.  They also wrote notes to include with the blankets which will be given to children at a county home for the disabled here in Kaposvár.  


The next day in Budapest we ‘closed’ two projects – both of which have taken months to get the equipment delivered.   In the neonatal department of a hospital, Dr. Csathy, a neonatologist, had asked for two infusion pumps.  We have visited him several times and have grown to really admire and respect him.   He is very caring and devoted to these newborn babies, but he is also in charge of finding the funds needed to run this department.  We think we mentioned before that we were hoping that he could find at least half the funds so we could help replace a 28-year-old sterilizer, which he prays for every time he runs it.  However, in the meantime, their infusion pumps broke -- a critical need.  He is currently waiting to hear back from a grant request he submitted to a bank about money for the sterilizer.  We pray that will be successful.  

In Hungary, doctors are very well trained, then hired by the government, but paid very little.  The majority of doctors leave the country and practice in other countries.   We have learned from several sources that medical school here is very good training, very inexpensive and taught in English.  So, students come from all over the world to be trained.  However, if they do their residency in Hungary, it must be done in Hungarian.  That means many of these students then leave to do their residencies in other countries; and do not return to practice in Hungary.   We know of an LDS medical student from the U.S. who is married to a Hungarian; he is planning to practice in Germany.  This week we met a medical student from Iraq, going to school in Hungary; he plans to return to his home to practice.


Our other ‘closing’ was for sweet Sister Anna, one of three sisters who have operated a home for the blind and multiple-disabled children for 35 years.   They currently have 30 children who live there and 30 more who come each day.  


You will see that there are bars on all the hallways, so that the children can feel their way to get around the buildings. 


Because some of the children have disabilities that require them to be fed intravenously, they need to be periodically weighed to be sure their weight is maintained or increasing.   And the children become fairly heavy for the sisters to hold and weigh (weigh themselves, then weigh holding the child); the humanitarian funds provided a weighing chair – the child can sit in the chair to be weighed.  


Also provided was a walker for those who cannot stand or walk.  For those who have spent their life in bed, they can be strapped in at the feet, legs, back and ‘stand’ for a time and perhaps play a game or do something on the tray.  Sister Anna told us it is a whole different sensation to look at the world from a standing angle when you have spent your life in a bed.  


 This little boy kept saying “hold my hand, hold my hand.”   He just needed that touch.



On our way through the town of Felcsut we noticed a large stadium just off the road.  It looked totally out of character for this small village.   When we finished our project, we stopped to look at it.  Wow!   This is a stadium that might rival the new one in Dallas!!!!   

This is NOT a cement and steel structure.  This is an architectural design of wonder.   Check out the beautiful wood arches and truces.  It is huge, even though it only seats 4,500 – in a town of 1,700.   
 

Why such a stadium in Felcsut? We asked around and did a little research.   It seems that the current prime minister is from Felcsut and loves football (soccer).  This is at the Puskas Akedemia -- Puskas being the all-time Hungarian soccer star-- and is the place where the professional youth soccer players are trained.  Many soccer fields are adjacent to the stadium.  We learned that it costs 3.8 billion HUF, which equals $16,269,928.00 dollars – and that’s probably only because Hungarian wages are rock bottom!  Supposedly it was not built with government dollars, but the companies who donated have received 'favors' from the government.  Who ever heard of such a thing?  

The rest of the week has been the usual – research on new projects, district meeting, and Young Single Adults on Friday.   We were gone this week and missed both Family Home Evening and Hungarian class, and didn’t do any visiting of branch families this week.  We had invited a couple (our interpreter) from the branch over for dinner this evening.  We waited an hour, finally ate and when we reached them, he had forgotten to tell his wife.

In thinking about our less active members, Amulek come to mind.  Of course, the fact that an angel appeared to Amulek to tell him that he would receive/feed a prophet is quite a miracle and a good beginning to reactivation. (However, it didn't ever seem to help Laman and Lemuel.)   But Alma spent time with Amulek teaching and strengthening his testimony.  And then they went together as companions -- the prophet and a reactivated member -- to teach the people.  And what a great companion and teacher Amulek was.  He astonished  the people, was a powerful second witness for Alma, 'silenced' and then helped convert Zeezrom.  What a strength!   We are praying for an Amulek from our little Kaposvár Branch.  Please pray with us. 

August 3, 2014





Typical slice of pizza -- not always with broccoli, but ALWAYS with corn!
This was a sort of stay-at-home week.  Three times this week we went with the elders to villages outside of Kaposvár to visit less active members or to find less active members – which was not very successful.  

We had a referral for a humanitarian project at a hospital in Nagykanizsa, a town about an hour and a half away from here, so we went there one day.  The lady we met with was very gracious.  She showed us around the hospital.  she invited us to lunch in their cafeteria.  The director of the pediatric wing gave us a tour.  A few years ago they received a government grant to add an emergency wing.  The doctor in charge spent time showing us that new area.  He was very proud of their updated computer, security and records systems.  In every room, he made mention that there were enough outlets and power to use any and all machines necessary.  We realized that is probably not possible in most of these very old hospitals.  The hospital would be considered plain (or dated) by American standards, but it was very clean and very well kept, and the staff seemed to be very efficient, helpful and caring.

Today at church, we had 11 visitors from Germany -- a family of four and seven young adults -- all vacationing at Lake Balaton, about an hour from here.  Kaposvár is the closest meeting for them to attend.  The German family in our branch was there today.  He only speaks German; she speaks some English and some Hungarian, but it was wonderful for them.  In fact, because we had more Germans (the visitors all spoke English), and several who bore testimony, the meeting was mostly in English and translated into Hungarian.  So we understood without having an elder sitting next to us translated out loud during the meeting.  It was a wonderful meeting.  The visiting German family was there last week also, so we had invited them for lunch today.  We have just finished a delightful time with them.  He is the bishop in a Berlin ward and their son is on a mission in the Colorado Springs Spanish speaking mission.

In between all of this Sharon prepared 20 brightly colored fleece blankets to be tied as a service project for the stake Deacon Beehive activity tomorrow evening near Budapest. Stan spent time 'closing' the projects on paper and reconciling the accounting -- time consuming for each transaction and project.  Oh, and Sharon cooked food for our weekly family home evening and Young single Adults on Friday.  

What a rainstorm we had this afternoon -- a hailstorm, in fact.  But it will cool things down again and we'll take that any time.  It's just very sticky wet.

There's not much else to write about this week, so this will be the week to show some scenes around Kaposvár. 

One of the streetlights that has the countdown for the traffic, not the pedestrians, starts at 41 seconds.  The yellow light comes after the red -- sort of a 'ready, set, go' before the green light.  And go they do.  When it gets to this point, they know they can go!
 


Most mornings there will be street sweepers cleaning streets and sidewalks.


 This morning the Posta man let us take his picture. 


It is customary to leave anything you don't want (food, clothes, etc.) tied to or near the trash bin.  The Romas (Gypsies) will be happy to have it.  In fact, in the spring there is a two week period that you can do spring cleaning and put clothes (or whatever) out on the sidewalk.  After the designated time, the city will pick up whatever is not taken.  This year during that time there was much rain.  The piles of clothing were pretty ruined.  If garbage bins are not locked, the Romas will go through them for anything they deem worthwhile. 

Our city, like yours, uses summer for projects, like


replacing water lines, 


replacing sidewalks,


and more sidewalks,


and more sidewalks.

Roundabouts are very common in Hungary -- very efficient.  We love them.  They are used on the highways instead of traffic lights.  Many in Kaposvár have fountains in the middle, which are lovely. 

Speaking of fountains, we've been collecting photos.  Here are a few:


This one is in the center of the town square.

On the way to visit a member sister.
 A nice aerial view of Kaposvár city centrum -- very inviting.


Looking at the street a little closer this morning on the way to church, the flowers were 
beautiful.

Just look at all the flowers. . .

This week may we express our gratitude for our Savior's Atonement.  We finished the book, The Infinite Atonement by Tad R. Callister.  It was amazing, education and humbling; and we feel like we are just beginning to understand and appreciate this amazing gift Jesus Christ gave to us:
  • The Atonement gives purpose and potency to every event in history.
  • The Atonement of Jesus Christ outweighs, surpasses, and transcends every other mortal event, every new discovery and every acquisition of knowledge, for without the Atonement all else in life is meaningless. 
  • The Atonement is the lifeblood that quickens every gospel precept.
  • Every attempt to reflect upon the Atonement, o study it, to embrace it, to express appreciation for it, however small or feeble it may be, will kindle the fires of faith and work its miracle towards a more Christlike life. It is an inescapable consequence of so doing.  We become like those things we habitually love and admire.  And thus, as we study Christ's life and live his teachings, we become more like Him.
  • Our reception of the Atonement is the key to unlock these gifts of the Spirit (or endowments of godly traits) and all their enabling powers, for it is the Atonement that purifies us and prepares us to be eligible recipients.
  • That is the whole purpose of life, the prime objective of the Atonement, to help us to return to Him and become like Him.
  • One does not speak lightly of the Atonement or casually express its appreciation.
Like Alma, [we] cannot say the smallest part of which [we] feel.  Alma 26:16.





July 27, 2014 - Six Months!


Hungarians love their fresh ice creams.  Warm weather sees an explosion of ice cream parlors and kiosks selling freshly made ice creams by the gomboc (a scoop), sometimes a bit bizarre flavors:  poppy seed, green tea, pear, buttermilk, plum, grapefruit, cranberry, currant, Russian cream (?), green apple, to name a few.  This place that turns their scoops into rose petals is rather famous and well patronized.

Another busy week has passed quickly.   Monday we had a good group for Family Home Evening, so enjoyed the young women and the elders and played Uno.   Two of the girls were non-member friends of the members. 

Monday morning we received a call that one of the medical warming units that the BYU Chamber Orchestra and NuSkin purchased had not yet been presented to the hospital in Tatabanya and would we come for the presentation on Thursday morning. So we quickly made some calls and found a couple of places in Tatabanya we could visit while there to make our trip more efficient. On Wednesday afternoon we met with a county home for the elderly and disabled.  They have four buildings; one is for elderly who have no family or other place to go. The other three buildings are for disabled adults, each of varying degrees.   We met twin boys, age 20, who have spent their life in bed.  They do not speak, but were smiling and were happy for the attention.  They are very close to each other and when one has problems or pain; the other is very sensitive and caring.  One was just a tiny, misshapen form under the sheet.   We are so very blessed. 


 

The next morning we attended the presentation and press conference at the hospital as they accepted the bed warming unit (which is used to stabilize body temperatures in ICU or surgery).  The hospital director said that they were planning to get one of these units, but it would take two years to have the money ($2,500) to do so.   We were interviewed by both TV and newspaper -  click the above link for the TV interview.  Thank goodness for Zoli (next to Sharon), the Church member who speaks perfect English and from whose company the warming units were purchased.  He was our interpreter and go-between.    

The hospital had a lovely buffet set up.  Too bad we had just eaten breakfast.  The man over the nurses commented that his daughter had been taught by the missionaries.


Afterwards we met with a day care facility for disabled adults.  We actually met with the residents; they were very friendly.   We learned that these men and women used to work, but are no longer allowed to do so; the facility does not have a license and proper credentials for that.  When asked what they would most like, the residents said they would like to work!   We suggested several ways in which we could help them to help themselves; but they think they cannot get the proper paperwork.  
 

One activity they have each morning is crafts.  Some are quite good and creative.  They made these very cute cards. 
I especially liked this ballerina tutu, which is a creative and clever use of cutout snowflakes!


The old, but nice hotel we stayed in had a nice feature.  The hallway was at angles, so every two rooms had this spacious sitting area.  The wall opposite the room door was all windows – so not a long, dark hallway.


On Wednesday after our meeting we had a little time, so were directed to see the bird on the mountain overlooking the city.  The Turul (hawk) is the most important bird in myth of Hungarian people.  It is a divine messenger, symbolizing power, strength and nobility and is used today on the coat of arms for the Hungarian army.  The Turul represents God’s power and will and is seen as the ancestor of Atilla the Hun.  He is often carrying the flaming sword of Atilla and bearing the crown of Atilla who is considered the first king of Hungary. 

From the hill -- the birdseye view of Tatabanya -- red tile roofs are very standard in Hungary.

Because seeing the Turul only took 5 minutes, we decided to take a walk down these inviting paths. . . .

. . . .we looked over the fence into a hole.   

 Continuing down some steps less traveled, we were soon inside a large cave.  
 


In the evening we walked around a beautiful city park that was full of families,  had several soccer fields, many different play areas and some unique teeter totters.

 
On the drive we took this photo of one of the many Soviet apartment buildings which are scattered around the country - emphasis on vacant and colorless cement structures.
 

And when we go and come toward the north, we always cross this high, beautifully built bridge.  This time we stopped and took a picture. 

We arrived home on Thursday afternoon and quickly fixed dinner for company that evening – the German family in our branch.   They brought their adult son who speaks English and translated for us throughout dinner. We had a nice and enjoyable evening.

This week was transfer week and we received two new missionaries – one from Great Falls, MT and the other from Queen Creek, AZ.  The two we have are from Spanish Fork, UT and Richmond, VA.

Friday we worked on humanitarian projects – our interpreter came over to make calls and do some researching of online items that are requested so that we can submit some more projects for approval from the Area Welfare Manager.. 

In the evening we were in charge of the Young Single Adult (YSA) activity.  We had 4 attend besides missionaries and President and Sister Balint, our branch president.

Saturday we went with the missionaries to a village about 50K away to visit a member lady who has been sick. We visited with her less-active son and daughter-in-law and a neighbor who is interested in receiving the missionaries. 

On the way we passed several tree/wood farms. It was interesting to see the trees so straight and uniform.


Afterwards, Stan took me to eat at Gecco, a Mexican restaurant that we pass each day as we walk to town or to the branch. We have been skeptical because the Mexican restaurants we tried before have been very Hungarian infused.  These vegetable enchiladas and Stan's fajitas were very good -- real Mexican flavor.  In fact, the menu was actually translated into English and Spanish correctly – which should have given us a clue.
 

Afterward we walked into town to get a game for FHE and YSA – Jenga is big here.    All week we had noticed youth teams in uniforms walking around town.  Today we spoke to some boys from Chile and then to a team from Scotland taking pictures of their cup and learned that this week was the International Intersport Youth Football (soccer) Tournament right here in little ole’ Kaposvar!   Scotland won the cup, Italy was second , but they couldn’t remember who was third.  

Speaking of games – does anyone have some good ideas for group games for young adult ages.  We need some good ideas that transcend language barriers.   We have played Five Crowns, Uno, Slap Jack, Murder and Pictionary, but need some ideas that don’t require buying the game.  We would love some ideas from you.

I spoke in Church today commemorating pioneers (not well known here) and talked a bit about these young and new Church members also being pioneers in Hungary.   In this month’s Liahona, which must also be in the Ensign, is an article about the Church in Brazil.   I compared the two:  The first mission in Brazil was established in 1935.  Thirty one years later the first stake was organized.  The Church and mission have been in Hungary 24 years and we are hoping for our second stake.  Hungary is ahead!  During the first 30 years, Brazil (which has about 20 times more people than Hungary) had 1,454 members.  After 24 years Hungary has 5,000 members.  Hungary is ahead!  Brazil’s first temple was dedicated in 1978, 43 years after the mission opened.  Hungary is not behind!

The Church is young in Hungary, about 50 years younger than in Brazil.  Pioneers are just beginning their trek here.  It will be wonderful to watch the next 50 years in Hungary!  May Heavenly Father bless and strengthen His wonderful children in Hungary.
 
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